理所当然

人就爱理所当然和假设

认为家人就是
理所当然的要接受你
理所当然的帮助你
理所当然的等待你

那家人的理所当然你是否办到了呢？
你是否也
理所当然的对他们嘘寒问暖
理所当然的孝顺他们
理所当然的了解他们呢？

你，了解你身边的朋友和同事多过你的家人
也许你会说，因为天天在一起和有话题聊啊
那小时候和家人可以无话不聊的场景又是怎样啊？！

我只希望你可以了解家人的重要性也记得家人也是要沟通的
没有所谓的理所当然
只有沟通和付出

也许爸爸对你的伤害很大，但换一个角度想想也许你会感谢他
但这个愤怒的小孩受伤太深了，需要时间。。

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